Hammer-philia

This is the text exchange that has been happening. I want your honest opinions about what I should do. He wants a straight answer,and we all know his suspiscions are spot-on. But then, he has been yelling at me and texting violent terms my way since before anything even happened with the Arch.

Wiz, 10:14am--"Just tell me, have u or have u not seen him? did u or did u not blow off our evening plans so u could go see him? just answer those. YOU don't know loving"

Wiz, 10:27am--"If i don't know how to love then why the hell do u miss me, u infernal bitch? always denigrating me w/ bad lip service? truth is i have loved u TONS &"

Wiz, 10:31am-- "And u have taken me for a huge ride AND also taken it for granted, while blaming the other. YOU dont know love or respect. u r a boor."

Hammer, 10:33am--"I cannot speak to you until you apologize for the way you have been talking to me."

Wiz, 10:34am-- "I dont want u anymore, ur abuse, ur hostility, violence & total lack of care and respect. i already took enough."

Hammer, 10:37am---"Violence and abuse? Look in the mirror. You dont want me? OK. Your loss. I will continue to miss you more than ever before but your violent rage eases the pain."

Wiz, 10:41am-- "Never. you owe ME a straight answer AND an apology before u even think i'll be interested in ur selfish crap again."

Wiz, 10:45am-- "Mine r words in response to ur actual actions, your sticks & stones that DO break my bones. besides u r avoiding my questions, notice that."

Wiz, 10:55am-- "Big drama u make of my words & say NOTHING of what makes for strife. that got really old now. plus u STILL wont tellu saw him. i hate lies."

PS: I do not feel good when I am with the Arch. I use him as a distraction from this bullshit.